Self-coaching method and system

ABSTRACT

The present application is generally directed to a method and system for coaching individuals such as, e.g., employees of organizations such as large enterprises, to achieve predefined goals through the preferably daily practice or use of preferably a single habit, skill, action, or behavior. For example, the method and system can be used to keep an individual focused and disciplined over time to change behavior such as, e.g, acquiring or reinforcing a new skill or habit. The system is preferably delivered through an automated, web-based application using, e.g., expert systems to simulate a live coach&#39;s response to different performance scenarios. The self-coaching method and system can strengthen an individual&#39;s focus, discipline, and perseverance over time and thereby dramatically increase the likelihood of success of achieving a reliable new habit or mastering a new skill. Briefly, the self-coaching method and system guides users through the process of articulating self-improvement or other goals and then helps them attain their personalized goals. Users can submit self-monitoring records preferably twice daily through the web-based application. These records help individuals focus on and renew their commitment to their plan of action, reflect on their experiences, and assess their own efforts. The web tool can provide users with graphic representations of performance measures, which are preferably updated daily. The system can simulate using, e.g., expert systems, a real coach&#39;s response to the user&#39;s problems and progress during the course of the use of the system, which can be, e.g., 21 days.

CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS

This application claims the benefit of provisional patent applicationSer. No. 60/581,097, filed 2004 Jun. 18 by the present inventor.

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BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

1. Field of Invention

The present application is generally directed to a method and system forcoaching individuals such as, e.g., employees of organizations such aslarge enterprises, to achieve predefined or self-determined behaviorchange goals through daily practice of preferably a single behavior. Forexample, the method and system can be used to keep an individual focusedand disciplined over time to acquire or reinforce a new skill or tochange behavior and habits. The system is preferably delivered throughan automated, web-based application using, e.g., expert systems tosimulate a live coach's response to different performance scenarios, orsupplemented by utilizing a live coach.

2. Prior Art

With but a few quite primitive exceptions, none of the automatedcoaching, training, and behavior change programs approaches behaviorchange in the manner which this invention does. Thus, in a very realsense there is no prior art for this invention in the field of automatedcoaching and behavior change programs, methods, systems, and tools.Automated coaching and behavior change programs commonly rely on thefollowing approaches to influence behavior change: objective performancemeasurement, insight, and/or education. By contrast, this invention doesnot incorporate or utilize any of the said common methods for coachingand influencing behavior change.

The four primary ways that other automated coaching and behavioralchange programs attempt to bring about change through their programofferings are through:

-   -   Performance goals and measurement. The focus of programs        utilizing this approach is on the end goal or outcome desired.        An example of such a goal or outcome is the achievement of cost        reductions in the manufacture of a company product. The        assumption is that if people know they will be rewarded or        punished according to their performance in achieving goals or        outcomes, they will be motivated to make the required behavior        changes necessary to achieve said goals. Another assumption of        such programs is that initial goal articulation and subsequent        measurement of performance and progress influence behavior        change through enhancing visibility, a sense of accountability,        and awareness. U.S. Pat. No. 2,005,058970 to Perlman (2005)        relies primarily on goal setting and measurement as the means to        promote behavior change.    -   Performance assessment and feedback tools. The focus of programs        utilizing this approach is on the actual behavior needing change        as opposed to the end goal or outcome which can be achieved by        the behavior change. An example of a behavior which would be        assessed and communicated through feedback tools to the user is        delegation skills. The assumption underlying this approach to        behavior change is that if people gain insight and understanding        about deficiencies in the behaviors and skills which have been        measured by the assessment tools, they will be motivated and        enabled to effect a positive change in said behaviors and        skills. U.S. Pat. No. 2,003,027116 to O'Donnell (2003) utilizes        assessment and feedback tools as a primary vehicle for bringing        about behavior change.    -   Planning, time management, and activity tracking tools. The        focus of programs utilizing this approach is on the        identification of tasks, steps, and plans to achieve end goals        and outcomes. An example of this kind of program would be a        project management plan and tracking tool. The assumption is        that if all the steps required to achieve an end goal are made        explicit with associated deadlines, plans, and schedules that        people will follow the plan and achieve the desired outcome. In        addition, it is assumed that tracking and reporting on progress        sticking with the plan will influence behavior change by        enhancing visibility, a sense of accountability, and awareness.        U.S. Pat. No. 2,003,186202 to Isenberg (2002) relies primarily        on planning and tracking tools as the means to influence        behavior change.    -   Style, skill, and behavior change training and education. The        focus of programs utilizing this approach is on providing people        with information and content about what they need to do to        effect behavior change and master new skills. These programs        usually educate and inform people about a series of ideas or        behaviors that people need to master, sometimes in a particular        order. The assumption is that with knowledge about what to do        people will implement the suggested changes in skills or habits        during and after the training period. E.P patent 108485 to        Healthlift LLC (2001) relies primarily on training and education        to bring about behavior change.        Below are some representative examples of prior art in the field        of automated coaching and behavior change programs from industry        leaders.        Performance Goals and Measurement:    -   Cognos Metrics Manager improves your performance. Greater        efficiency—align tactics with strategy to use resources        effectively. Increased accountability—assign owners for each        metric and responsibility for performance. Increased        focus—concentrate on priorities and eliminate distractions.        Improved communication—communicate results and actions taken to        manage performance. Improved collaboration—use metrics to link        together people, departments, and processes. (Cognos.com)    -   Halogen eAppraisal allows you to incorporate organizational        goals at multiple levels and track relevant Milestones or Key        Performance Indicators throughout the year. Supports “SMART”        goals. Supports cascading goals. Lets you establish        sophisticated scoring and weighting. Track goal and        milestone/KPI status with drill down reports. Turn on or off        ability to modify goals during review period        (halogensoftware.com)        Planning, Time Management, and Tracking:    -   MyHours.com is a time management, timesheet, time tracking        solution. It enables you to track your work time, projects you        work on and tasks you perform. It is web based and can be used        from any location at any time. (myhours.com)    -   MyGoals.com walks you through a simple, step-by-step        goal-setting process for any goal, whether it's short-term or        long-term, easy or difficult, practical or lofty. We also        provide pre-made GoalPlans® for popular goals, to get you        started even faster. Once you've set a goal, we'll send you        email reminders that arrive precisely when you should be working        on each task. (mygoals.com)        Assessment and Feedback:    -   Leadership Mirror: Multirater feedback surveys that provide        insightful comparisons on how people see themselves relative to        how others perceive them. And, Assessing Talent: People leader:        DDI's Assessing Talent: People Leaders™—a web delivered        behavioral assessment program—is an excellent tool for hiring        and promotion decisions, and development of future and current        leaders. (DDI.com)    -   360 Degree Feedback™: Right is a leader in the design and        administration of 360 Degree Feedback™ systems for leadership        development. 360 surveys give people feedback from their bosses,        colleagues, and direct reports for a complete picture of their        on-the-job effectiveness. Our 360 experts have been in the field        for over two decades, providing the experience and advice our        clients need to make such efforts successful. Right's individual        assessments are research-based, user-friendly, and supported by        comprehensive development and planning tools. (right.com)        Education and Training:    -   Online Performance and Learning: OPALS provides day-to-day job        performance and professional development learning via the user's        personal computer for access anytime, anywhere. (ddi.com)    -   e-Learning gives you the power to move your business toward its        goals, toward success and results. Harnessing the tremendous        communication advantages of the web gives your training and        development programs the power to captivate and motivate your        workforce. You can have learning anytime, anywhere. And when        that happens, you unleash the potential of your organization.        (elementk.com)        Live Coaching is Not Prior Art for this Invention.

Programs which rely on live coaches to provide support for behavioralchange via any means and media are not considered to meet the definitionfor prior art in the field of automated coaching and behavior changeprograms. Specifically, online and web-based programs marketed asecoaching tools whereby live coaches communicate with individual usersvia email or through live chat on websites are not considered to meetthe definition for prior art in the field of automated coaching andbehavior change programs.

Examples of such programs which rely on live coaches to provide supportvia email or live chat are: Nutricize.com; SouthBeachDiet.com; andMyCoach.com.

BACKGROUND OF INVENTION—OBJECTS AND ADVANTAGES

Large organizations lose millions of dollars each year from lostproductivity as a result of lack of follow through in the aftermath ofworkforce development training programs, performance reviews, and otherforms of feedback. Corporations are estimated to spend $40 to $60billion a year on training programs, roughly $750 per employee.According to a study conducted by The Xerox Corporation, 87% of theinitial improvement in skills gained from training programs is lost whenthere is no follow-up. People generally return from training programsclear on what to do to improve their value at work, but often fail toimplement their plans because it is difficult to sustain their focus onthe new skills or habits for a long enough period to ensure theirreliability. Likewise, after performance reviews, people are usuallyinspired to improve their work skills and habits, but often find itdifficult to make a sustained effort to effect the changes they andtheir supervisors desire. Similar problems exist outside of theworkplace, most notably with follow through on health management,fitness, sports, and self-help programs regardless of the media or meansof presentation of such. Hence, a need exists for providing individualsboth in the workplace and elsewhere with support and feedback to keepthem on track and focused until new skills, habits, and attitudes becomesecond nature. This invention meets that need in a totally uniquemanner.

This Invention Addresses The Key Flaw In All Prior Art. The key flaw inall prior automated coaching and behavior change programs is theassumption that people possess the focus, discipline, and perseveranceto make desired changes in behavior. The assumption these programs arebased upon is that either a) insight about what to do to improve or b)pressure to change will be sufficient to enable and motivate people toachieve a lasting improvement in their skills and habits. Insight isprovided by these programs via training/education and/or viaassessment/feedback Pressure to change is provided by performancemeasurement and tracking. However, studies indicate that peoplegenerally need a great deal of reinforcement and repetition to makechanges “stick”. This invention addresses the key flaw of all otherautomated change programs by providing the means to strengthen people'sfocus, discipline, and perseverance over a time period that dramaticallyincreases the likelihood of success in mastering new skills andestablishing reliable new habits. In effect, the method and system ofthis invention provides users with an external support system thatreplicates the internal mindset of high achieving people.

Different Assumptions About Achieving Behavior Change Leads To DifferentMethods And Systems. Other behavioral change and coaching programsassume that individuals have the ability to persevere in mastering askill or changing a habit until it is reliable and lasting. Thisinvention is premised on the opposite assumption which is that mostindividuals do not have the ability to persevere without sufficientstructure, guidance, and support. Hence this invention serves anentirely different purpose and utilizes entirely different means,methods, and systems than all other automated coaching and behavioralchange programs.

This Invention Does Not Utilize The Three Categories Of Methods AndSystems Commonly Used By Other Coaching And Behavior Change Programs. Asstated in the preceding section on prior art, other programs includedunder the rubric of automated coaching and behavior change programscommonly rely on the following three approaches to influence behaviorchange: 1) objective performance measurement/tracking, 2)assessment/feedback, and/or 3) training/education. By contrast, thisinvention does not incorporate or utilize any of the said three commonmethods for coaching and influencing behavior change.

-   -   1. Objective Performance Measurement and Tracking. This        invention does not provide the means, methods, or systems for        objective performance measurement of users. (It does provide the        means, methods, and systems for users to subjectively assess        their own performance and progress in achieving their behavior        change goals.)    -   2. Training and Education. This invention does not provide        substantive content to educate or train users about what they        ought to do or change in their behavior, habits, or skills.    -   3. Assessment and Feedback. This invention does not provide the        means, methods, or systems to provide users with feedback and        insight from third parties or through assessment tools about        their behavior or performance. Below are a few examples of        behavior change programs which rely on assessment and feedback:

Conversely, Other Coaching And Behavior Change Programs Do Not UtilizeThe Methods And Systems That Comprise This Invention. With but a fewcomparatively primitive exceptions, none of the other automated coachingand behavior change programs offers the means, method, and systems forthe following key features of this invention:

-   -   1. Enabling the repetition of a preferably single skill or        behavior over a period of time until the new habit or skill        becomes reliable.    -   2. Simulating through expert systems a live coach's response to        different performance scenarios based on user's self-assessments        of two or more performance measures.    -   3. Guiding users to a) start the practice day by focusing,        planning, and committing to their day's program and b) end the        day by reflecting and assessing the day's performance.    -   4. Presenting users daily with one of three possible        motivational statements which they personally have generated.

SUMMARY

The present application is generally directed to a method and system forcoaching individuals such as, e.g., employees of organizations such aslarge enterprises, to achieve predefined or self-determined goalsthrough the preferably daily practice or use of preferably a singlehabit, skill, action, or behavior. For example, the method and systemcan be used to keep an individual focused and disciplined over time tochange behavior such as, e.g, acquiring or reinforcing a new skill orhabit. The system is preferably delivered through an automated,web-based application using, e.g., expert systems to simulate a livecoach's response to different performance scenarios. The self-coachingmethod and system can strengthen an individual's focus, discipline, andperseverance over time and thereby dramatically increase the likelihoodof success of achieving a reliable new habit or mastering a new skill.Briefly, the self-coaching method and system guides users through theprocess of articulating self-improvement or other goals and then helpsthem attain their personalized goals. Users can submit self-monitoringrecords preferably twice daily through the web-based application. Theserecords help individuals focus on and renew their commitment to theirplan of action, reflect on their experiences, and assess their ownefforts. The web tool can provide users with graphic representations ofperformance measures, which are preferably updated daily. The system cansimulate using, e.g., expert systems, a real coach's response to theuser's problems and progress during the course of the use of the system,which can be, e.g., 21 days.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION

The coaching system process is preferably implemented in a secure onlineapplication. The online application reduces the amount of time a usermust spend at the beginning and end of each day the user uses theapplication, while increasing the benefits conferred through theprocess. The coaching system can use a variety of technology platformsincluding, e.g., Microsoft.NET. At the back-end, the system can use aserver such as, e.g., Microsoft SQL Server.

Users can access the application in a general purpose computer. Arepresentative computer is a personal computer or workstation platformthat is, e.g., Intel Pentium®, PowerPC® or RISC based, and includes anoperating system such as Windows®, OS/2®, Unix or the like. As is wellknown, such machines include a display interface (a graphical userinterface or “GUI”) and associated input devices (e.g., a keyboard ormouse).

The coaching system can be implemented as a stand-alone, web-basedapplication or as a combined application and coaching experience.

The coaching system program can be delivered to users through variouspossible modes. Corporate users, e.g., can access the coaching systemthrough a preferably secure, web-based application hosted, e.g., on thecompany intranet and integrated with the company's branding, messaging,and training platform. The coaching system can also be made available toindividuals and smaller corporate entities through a centralized, hostedpublic internet service designed for the mass market. In addition, thecoaching system can be provided through recorded media such as, e.g., aCD-ROM for those with low bandwidth and other constraints. Judicious useof e-mail prompts and other reminders can optionally be used to drawusers back into the program periodically. Live coaches can optionallysupplement the online application when needed.

The coaching system is designed to help people maintain focus,discipline, and perseverance over a period of time to learn a new skillor to change an unwanted habit. The system is preferably used for afixed period of time, e.g., 21 days. (While a 21-day program isgenerally described herein, it should be understood that the duration ofthe program can vary as needed.) The 21 days of the program may or maynot be consecutive. In many cases, the 21 days will stretch over aperiod of 6 to 10 weeks. The program relies primarily on self-monitoringrecords submitted and reviewed through the coaching system webapplication. A morning or “A.M. Checkin” helps people focus on and renewtheir commitment to their plan of action. A later “P.M. Review” can beused for self-assessment of and reflection on the day's effort. Graphicand statistical representations of performance measures can be trackedand updated on a daily basis. Participants can preferably receiveperiodic “coach's messages” from the automated program in response totrends in their performance. These trends are filtered, e.g., throughexpert systems, which trigger responses intended to respond iterativelyto performance data. These coach's messages, for instance, willencourage the user or seek to bring them back on track. The program canuse expert systems or other mechanisms to mimic what a real (i.e.,human) coach might say in response to certain trends in performance andresponses. In a corporate version of the program, support andaccountability for staying the course may be provided through periodictelephone coaching sessions with an outside live coach and a finalreview session with an immediate supervisor, peer, mentor, or someone onthe HR staff upon completion of the program. Users working with theprogram on their own are encouraged to announce their goals at theoutset of the program to a friend or some other person, and to meet withthat person at a set date at the end of the program to review theirexperience.

Habits, Skills, and Behaviors

The coaching system is designed to help individuals—whether in acorporate or other setting or on their own—to make positive changes intheir behavior. The expert systems-driven application in accordance withone or more embodiments is designed to enable improvement in variousareas, including those described below. The coaching system can helpkeep people and organizations moving from insight and aspiration tochange. The coaching system can help support people in making thechanges they and their organizations have defined. These changes caninclude, but are not limited to the following:

Examples from a Corporate Setting

-   -   Follow-up on alcohol or drug treatment programs.    -   Make and follow-up on sales calls.    -   Take time for planning.    -   Handle high priority issues early in the day.    -   Do not let minor issues consume too much time.    -   Keep team values in the forefront of one's mind.    -   Delegate effectively.    -   Make steady progress toward business goals.    -   Take time for exercise or stress control practices.    -   Keep others in the loop (communication and coordination).        Examples from a Personal Setting    -   Stick to an exercise regimen.    -   Stick to a diet regimen.    -   Stick to a medication regimen.    -   Take time for meditation or stress reduction.    -   Spend more time with friends and family.    -   Listen to one's children.    -   Control one's anger.    -   Manage personal finances better.    -   Plan for a new career.    -   Sleep better and longer.

The coaching system generally requires only a modest amount of time touse. The initial set-up of the program can, e.g., take between fifteenminutes and an hour, depending upon whether a coach is involved andother factors. From there on, the daily time commitment is modest, e.g.,five minutes at the start of each day planning, and five minutes at theend of each day assessing, reflecting, and revising. The 21 days of theprogram refers to 21 days of practicing a single new action, behavior,or habit—and need not be 21 consecutive calendar days. In addition, thehabit or skill is preferably practiced at least three times a week. Theprogram duration can, e.g., be 21 days if the participant practiced thehabit every single day. More typically, the program can take about tenweeks to complete.

The system preferably focuses on only one habit to change or skill tomaster during a given program. People tend to have difficulty sustainingfocus and effort when the change goal that they have set for themselvesis too complex. If there is more than one new habit in the works, theytend to slack off and give up. The coaching system is designed toincrease the likelihood of success in creating a reliable new habit ormastering a new skill. Participants are accordingly preferably limitedto using the process to create a single new habit or master a single newskill. The chances that they will successfully complete the program andsucceed in achieving their goal are thereby improved.

A 21-day period generally means 21 days of practice, not necessarily 21consecutive days. This element of the program is based on common sense,experience, and behavior modification research. It is generally not easyto learn new habits and to change old mindsets and attitudes. A fewhours or even a few days in a training program, regardless of thequality of the material presented, is generally not sufficient to createreal and lasting change in deeply rooted ways of behaving andinteracting with others. It generally takes a persistent and consistenteffort sustained over quite a long time to break old habits of thoughtand to create new ones which will stick. A good analogy is the time ittakes to master a physical skill, such as tennis or playing a musicalinstrument, or to complete a course of physical therapy after an injury.One needs a sustained effort, preferably performed daily, over severalmonths in order to achieve a sustainable level of skill or physicalstrength and stability. One wouldn't expect to become competent atplaying the guitar after attending a single class or reading even themost thorough instruction manual. To learn a new skill or to create anew habit, be it physical or mental, one has to persevere steadily for along enough time for it to become second nature. As a general rule, 21work days of actual practice are necessary to ensure that people won'tslip back into old habits.

Daily E-mail Prompts, Self-Monitoring Diaries, and the InteractiveProgram

In accordance with one or more embodiments of the invention, the use ofa daily self-monitoring diaries combined with an interactive daily emailprogram helps people to sustain the self-discipline and self-awarenessnecessary to complete a long-term program of change. A recent study outof Brown University found that people engaged in a weight loss programwho kept self-monitoring diaries and received short weekly emailfeedback based on their diary submissions lost three times as muchweight as people who followed the same program, but did not keep theself-monitoring diaries or receive email coaching. The email promptsserve as a daily reminder to stick with the program. Users can choosefrom a variety of personalized means of notification including email,NET alerts, a tickler bar, an application that runs on the taskbar andgently pulses a color to indicate your status, automatic wake up calls(electronic voice), faxes, and other means.

Self-Assessment Ratings of Effort and Habit Reliability

There is a great deal of social science literature attesting to thepower of using performance measures to bring about organizational andindividual change. Since there is no feasible way to institute anobjective means of performance measurement for program participants, thebest available alternative is to utilize self-assessment. It has beenfound that users who have tested the coaching system application takethese ratings very seriously and are highly motivated to improve theirperformance as a result. The use of the ratings forces participants totake an honest look at their commitment to the program and makes it moredifficult to turn a blind eye when they start to slack off.

Reflection Record

In accordance with one or more embodiments, a reflection record is keptby users. The reflection record can be a journal or diary feature. Therehas been quite a bit of research support in the behavior modificationarena that journal keeping is an effective tool for bringing aboutbehavior change. Reflection aids in problem solving insofar as peoplewill reflect on what helps and what hinders their efforts, and thereforeadjust their plans and actions accordingly.

Change Goal Statement

The coaching system in accordance with one or more embodiments helpsusers to identify and enunciate the new habit or skill they wish tochange or improve.

Outcomes Statement

Personal. In accordance with one or more embodiments of the invention,users enunciate the goal or outcome they hope to achieve as a way tomotivate themselves to keep up a sustained effort. A well-known study ofHarvard graduates showed a strong correlation between high achievementand clear goal articulation. Work Group and Organization. In accordancewith one or more embodiments of the invention, in the context of anorganization, users consider not only the personal outcomes they hope toachieve, but also the likely outcomes for their work group and theorganization as a whole. People's sense of motivation tends to increasewhen they feel a commitment to achieve results for more than their ownpersonal reward. The articulation of the positive results of theirprogram for their work group and organization should up the ante as itwere in terms of motivation and commitment to staying the course andputting in the best effort.

Cost of Failure Statement

In accordance with one or more embodiments users to take a good hardlook at and enunciate the problems they will continue to experience ifthey do not succeed in making the changes they have committed to make.

Tactics Statement.

In accordance with one or more embodiments, the coaching system helpsusers identify likely obstacles and create tactics for overcoming them.The coaching system can enable participants to anticipate the range ofobstacles that might arise in the pursuit of a change goal and to thinkabout ways they will overcome those obstacles. Being realistic andprepared in this way greatly increase their chances of ultimatelysucceeding in creating reliable good new habits or breaking old badones.

Program Set-Up

The program set-up in accordance with one or more embodiments is nowdescribed. The user initially creates the four statements. These are theChange Goal, Outcomes, Cost of Failure, and Tactics Statements. Uponenrolling in the program, participants will be led through a series ofquestions that will lead to create these four key statements. Users willhave the opportunity every day to revise the statements as necessary.They will also be asked to announce the periodicity of theirparticipation. In other words, do they expect to participate every day,every work day, every other day, or three times a week. They may alsoindicate their preference for receiving email prompts or initiatingtheir programs on their own without prompts. Once the set-up iscomplete, people are ready to begin their 21-day program at any time.

Visualization

The coaching system in accordance with one or more embodiments candirect users to visualize themselves enacting various actions andexperiencing various future scenarios. Participants are likely to chooseto develop new habits (or break old ones) that have eluded them foryears. Visualization can increase the likelihood of success in bringingabout the changes they want. Visualization can be a first step towardstaking real action. Visualization has in the past been used with successextensively in training competitive athletes and in behaviormodification programs.

Daily Participation Requirements

Participants interact with the coaching system preferably two timesevery day. At the start of their day they complete the A.M. check-inform. This form allows users to review their four statements usingvisualizations where appropriate, write a statement regarding theiraction commitment for the day, and engage in other exercises designed tofacilitate focus, planning, and commitment. FIG. 3 is an example of ascreen shot of an A.M. check-in form.

At the end of the day, participants complete the P.M. review form, whichallows them to rate their effort in practicing their new habit andassess the reliability of the habit thus far. It also provides them withan opportunity to revise their four statements and to reflect on theirexperience in practicing their new habit, action, or behavior.Participants can check logs containing the record of all priorreflections, coach's messages, earlier versions of statements, and dailyaction commitments at any time.

Program Elements

The program elements that a participant generally uses on a daily basisare:

-   -   Change Goal Statement. The Change Goal Statement is a        description of the action, behavior, mental attitude, habit, or        skill that the participant has chosen to practice in the        coaching system program. There may be a set of related or        auxiliary actions, etc. that can also be included here and can        be practiced on the days when the primary action cannot be        practiced for whatever reason. The action statement identifies a        single action or related set of actions to be practiced in the        same way repeatedly day after day for a total of 21 days. The        participant will be instructed to avoid setting up a series of        phased actions or tasks as one would use in any planning        program. He or she will also be instructed to make the        distinction between the end goal one hopes to achieve through        the actions and the action itself. The Change Goal Statement        only addresses the behavior that is to be practiced daily, not        the outcome, goal, or result of that behavior.    -   Outcomes Statement. Users define the outcomes, goals, and        results they hope will come about as a result of their mastery        of the new habits they have established by completing their        program. They are prompted to identify preferably both        short-term and long-term goals. Corporate users or users        associated with other organizations may be prompted to identify        personal, group, and corporate or organization goals they hope        will be furthered through their mastery of the new habit or        skill they have chosen to address.    -   Cost of Failure Statement. The Cost of Failure Statement is the        flipside of the Goal Statement. It identifies all the problems        that will occur and opportunities that will be lost if the        participant fails to master the skill, action, behavior, or        habit they have chosen to address in their coaching system        program.    -   Tactics Statement. Users can list all the obstacles and        roadblocks that are likely to arise making it difficult for them        to practice their Change Goal behavior during the course of the        coaching system program. They are then prompted to think of        tactics to overcome such obstacles when and if they occur. The        program can offer suggestions for overcoming standard obstacles        for different kinds of behavior change goals. It can also        recommend that users ask their friends and colleagues or others        for help in developing effective strategies for overcoming those        obstacles which stump them.    -   Self-Rating of Effort and Habit Reliability. At the end of each        day participants are prompted on the P.M. review form to rate        themselves on their level of effort that day in practicing their        new habit. At the every fourth day users are prompted on the PM        review form to rate themselves on the extent to which the new        habit has become reliable and stable. These ratings can be shown        in graphically and may be displayed on every page of the        program.    -   Reflections. The P.M. review form gives participants the        opportunity to record their reflections on their experiences        during the day as they tried to practice their target behavior,        skill, habit, or mental attitude. The program will offer        guidelines as to aspects of the experience upon which one might        usefully reflect.    -   Coach's Messages. The coaching system program can generate        messages from the “coach” periodically in response to certain        patterns of performance and input by participants. The message        generation is preferably automated. In the corporate version        some of these messages may be from an actual coach assigned to        the participants. If the participant seems to be having        difficulty sticking with their program, the coach's message may        also be sent by email.    -   Logs. Participants can access, but preferably not alter, logs of        all previous records listed in chronological order including but        not limited to the following items: revised statements;        reflections, daily action commitments, and coach's messages.    -   Revision Opportunity. Participants are given the opportunity to        revise any of the four statements during the course of the        program on designated days as well as through a revise function        which can be accessed and utilized by the participant at any        point in the program. Any changes made are reflected in the next        day's version of the statements in both the A.M. and P.M. forms.        The prior versions of the newly revised statement are recorded        in the revised statements log in chronological order.

EXAMPLES

The following are examples illustrating various types of statements andreflections made by individuals during use of the coaching system.

Example One A Salesperson Who Needed to Increase Her Daily Quota of ColdCalls

Change Goal Statement: Make a minimum of 50 cold calls a day. Do twosessions of letter writing to prospective clients a week. Spend one daya week networking.

Outcomes Statement: Have two more submissions and have written at leastone case of reasonable size, or two small cases by the end of January.Make one good account sale by June. Develop the ability to pitch andrepresent my own start up company. Pay off my debts.

Cost of Failure Statement: Won't have prospects and without them will bedead in the water. Spin wheels if don't find the right market. Can't paydebts. Lose job and salary. Lose face.

Tactics Statement:

Problem: Get distracted, lazy, moody, or ambivalent

Tactics: Use time management to set priorities. Remind self of whatmight lose if I don't get going, money and face. Think about thecompetition. What if young college grads outperform me? Motivate self bythinking about the great job I can get next time with this experience.

Problem: Returningjunk emails until late afternoon.

Tactics: Do cold calls first thing in the morning. Work at home, wakeup, have coffee, meditate, then call.

Problem: Stressed out and don't feel jazzed up.

Tactics: Drink less at night. Work out at the gym more.

Reflection Log Entry: Today was a better day for making cold calls thanI've had in a long time, as I was forced to focus regardless of theanxiety about making cold calls. I just went ahead despite my feelingsand made the calls. I also looked into a new call list and tried tofellow up on a lead. And, I set up a networking event schedule for thenext two weeks. The flow of work was much better. However, I discoveredthat I still do not have perfect calling list, and need to target warmmarkets more.

Example Two A Golfer Wishing to Play Consistently at His Best Level

Change Goal Statement: Practice a quality swing every day likely in theevening for fifteen or twenty minutes. Also get to the driving rangetwice a week. Weekly review the chapter on the swing in Jim Linkinsbook. Play once a week.

Outcomes Statement: Hit the ball squarely straighter less mistakes taketen strokes off my average score of one hundred. Consistently beat mybrother. Feel pretty good. Enjoy the game even more. Push myself overthe edge of the plateau I've been on. Long term might shoot inmid-eighties or hi-seventies if I show to myself that I can produce abetter swing.

Cost of Failure Statement: Frustrating because there are times when Ihit the ball exceptionally well and not by accident but loads of timewhen I don't hit well. I should be able to be better. Frustrating not tohave made the step of steady change. My brother will continue to have anedge on me.

Tactics Statement:

Problem. The kids need my time.

Tactics. Tell them that I've got this goal. Need to take some timeenlist their support or at least their awareness.

Reflection Log Entry:

Played an actual golf match with my brother and two friends. Not justplaying a round where nothing counted (other than wanting to go well) .. . this was for bragging rights! Thinking about problems I have runinto . . . weather didn't help me as far as practicing one day (I haveroom at home, but not at the apartment). Beyond that, I can also callupon the trigger more often when getting ready for shots. I don't use itevery time, but might not be a bad idea. Anyway, I think just by takinga moment before each shot to have a quick flash, and to commit myself tothat before the start of a round would be helpful.

Example Three An Aggressive Young Salesman Who Tended to OverpowerOthers with a Fast, Loud Pattern of Speech

Change Goal Statement: When I feel pressured or insecure I will slowdown my speech so I can listen to myself talk as well as hear othersbetter.

Outcomes Statement: Be able to communicate effectively to achievedefinite results in both business and personal life gracefully and whileleaving a lasting good impression with the people I am communicatingwith. Establish an image of being graceful communicator with poiseregardless of results.

Cost of Failure Statement: People will have an impression of me assomeone who is nervous, young, and restless and therefore notprofessional. They will seem me as lacking self-confidence. People willfeel pressured by me and react negatively rather than positively. Insales, professional image is 80 percent of the game, so the cost ofdamaging that image is tremendous.

Tactics Statement:

Problem: To feel rushed by the emotion and mouth just opens.

Tactics: Feel the emotion without acting on it. Take a deep breath andlet the emotion dissolve on the spot before words come out of my mouth.Fake a smile, then speak.

Reflection Log Entry:

This isn't easy to do. It seems a little forced when I stop and slowdown my speech, but no one commented on it today, so I guess it doesn'tseem to strange to others and I'll probably get used to it myself intime.

Software Implementation

The coaching system is preferably implemented in software, andaccordingly one of the preferred implementations of the invention is asa set of instructions (program code) in a code module resident in therandom access memory of the computer. Until required by the computer,the set of instructions may be stored in another computer memory, e.g.,in a hard disk drive, or in a removable memory such as an optical disk(for eventual use in a CD ROM) or floppy disk (for eventual use in afloppy disk drive), or downloaded via the Internet or some othercomputer network. In addition, although the various methods describedare conveniently implemented in a general purpose computer selectivelyactivated or reconfigured by software, one of ordinary skill in the artwould also recognize that such methods may be carried out in hardware,in firmware, or in more specialized apparatus constructed to perform thespecified method steps.

CONCLUSION, RAMIFICATIONS, AND SCOPE

Having described preferred embodiments of the present invention, itshould be apparent that modifications can be made without departing fromthe spirit and scope of the invention.

1. A method and system of coaching individuals to achieve predefined orself-determined goals by practicing preferably a single behaviorpreferably daily during the course of the use of the said method andsystem, and preferably delivered through an automated web-basedapplication using, e.g., expert systems to simulate a live coach'sresponses to patterns in performance scenarios:
 1. A method and systemof guiding users through the articulation of i) goals, preferably asingle behavior, habit, skill, or action, ii) motivational factors, andiii) tactical plans preferably delivered through an automated web-basedapplication or a computer program on a CD-ROM, USB stick, or othermedia;
 2. a method and system of guiding users through the articulationof predefined, e.g., organizational, goals, motivational factors, andtactical plans;
 3. a method and system of guiding users through thearticulation of personalized self-improvement goals, motivationalfactors, and tactical plans;
 4. a method and system of guiding usersthrough the articulation of a mix of predefined organizational andpersonalized self-improvement goals, motivational factors, and tacticalplans;
 5. A method and system guiding users to practice or repeatpreferably daily a preferably single behavior, habit, skill, or actionduring the course of the use of the system, which can be, e.g., 21 days,preferably delivered through an automated web-based application or acomputer program on a CD-ROM, USB stick, or other media.
 6. a method andsystem guiding users to submit self-monitoring records preferably twicedaily;
 7. a method and system guiding users to submit self-monitoringrecords whereby the initial submission consists of plans and goalsarticulated for that day;
 8. a method and system guiding users to submitself-monitoring records whereby the latter submission guides users toreflect on, evaluate and capture their assessment with regard to theabove (3a);
 9. a method and system to ensure confidentiality of usersubmissions.
 10. a method and system of providing graphicrepresentations and reports of user performance measures, which arepreferably updated daily;
 11. a method and system of providing graphicrepresentations and reports of user compliance, which are preferablyupdated daily;
 12. a method and system of providing graphicrepresentations and reports of user self-assessment ratings, which arepreferably updated daily.
 13. A method and system of providing automatedreplicated coach's responses to trends and patterns in an individualuser's performance scenarios as indicated by program users, or utilizinga live coach preferably delivered through an automated web-basedapplication or a computer program on a CD-ROM, USB stick, or othermedia. whereby said method or system helps program users keep focused,disciplined, and motivated to persevere over the period of time requiredto change behavior, acquire a new skill, and/or develop a reliable newhabit.